A Nigerian woman, identified simply as Ziyaah from Bauchi, has advised financially independent women not to get romantically involved with men who cannot match their ability to provide for themselves.
Taking to the microblogging platform X, Ziyaah admonished women not to date or marry men who cannot afford the things they can do for themselves.
According to her, the relationship might seem rosy at the beginning, but with time, they will start resenting their partners for not being financially able to fend for their needs.
She wrote,
“If you’re a woman that is working hard & earning good money, PLEASE DO NOT DATE OR MARRY SOMEONE that cannot afford the things you can do for yourself. The relationship no go blend. At first you’d think you’re okay with it, but as time goes on, you’ll resent him.”
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In other news, a lady has stirred reactions online as she shared the unexpected response she received from her partner after playing a pregnancy prank on him to test how he would respond to the news.
The young woman announced in her boyfriend’s DM that they were having a child together in an effort to playfully pull his leg.
He initially thought she was playing a joke on him, but as she persisted, he started to suspect she could actually be serious.
He instantly changed the subject and started blaming her as he informed her that she knows they cannot get married since she is not his type, and he has merely been with her to make her feel less lonely.
“If you are earning good money, don’t date or marry someone that cannot afford the things you can do for yourself” – Nigerian woman advises ladies - Mama Ejima - Sep 21, 2023 8:54 pm
It’s certainly true that financial compatibility can be an important factor in a relationship. However, it’s not the only factor that matters. There are many other things that make a relationship successful, like shared values, trust, and communication.
I would say that it’s more important to find someone who is a good match for you overall, rather than focusing solely on financial compatibility.
Money is important, but it’s only one piece of the puzzle when it comes to relationships. What matters most is finding someone who makes you happy and supports you in your goals.
And even if one partner earns more than the other, that doesn’t mean that the relationship is doomed to fail. It just means that both partners will need to communicate openly and honestly about money and other issues.
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It’s certainly true that financial compatibility can be an important factor in a relationship. However, it’s not the only factor that matters. There are many other things that make a relationship successful, like shared values, trust, and communication. I would say that it’s more important to find someone who is a good match for you overall, rather than focusing solely on financial compatibility.
Money is important, but it’s only one piece of the puzzle when it comes to relationships. What matters most is finding someone who makes you happy and supports you in your goals. And even if one partner earns more than the other, that doesn’t mean that the relationship is doomed to fail. It just means that both partners will need to communicate openly and honestly about money and other issues.